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Choosing the best college for you

Discouraging Words

Avoid discouraging words.  Too many teens have heard the following statements this year:
 
  • "You're not being realistic."
  • "Don't bother to apply, you'll never get in."
  • "With your test scores, you should consider vocational school."
  • "They don't let local students in to that college, it is better to apply somewhere else."
  • "If you look at the grade point averages of admitted students last year, you don't stand a chance."
 

In state or out of state?

Parents often tell their children that they should only apply to public colleges where they will be considered an in-state student.  They do that because in-state students normally pay a lower tuition rate than out of state students enrolled in public colleges and universities. Some parents go one-step further and direct their children to apply to a community college or local four year college for the first two years so that they can live at home and save on dorm costs.
 
This is good advice but depending on the qualifications of the student, it may also be cost effective to apply to some private and out of state colleges and universities to see what they will offer.

Stress, communication and the college process

Parents and students often find the college process stressful.  The main stressor, they say, is that many options are only available during specific windows of opportunity and this information is not readily available.
 
The best way to approach the college process is to do your homework, dialogue with each other as a team and follow the same good-shopper habits that families use in buying a car or other major purchase:
 
  • start early (at least by 10th grade)
  • find out what the student would like to study so that you can choose colleges wisely

The best college for your kid

 
High school seniors and their parents just finished making final choices from the college acceptance letters they received this spring.  In many cases, they have agonized over which admission offer to accept.  And after they notify the college of their choice, they sometimes wonder if they made the best choice. The best college choice for any student is the college or university that best fits them in the following 10 ways.
 
  1. academic program that will prepare them to meet their career goals

You would not let your child drive a lemon, don't let them graduate from one

Buying a college education has a fair amount of similarities to buying a used car.  You'd never buy a used car at first sight.  And you would not make a final buying decision based solely on what a sticker or car report or used car salesman says without doing a little research yourself.  Not even if they offered you "easy payments".
 
Prior to selecting a college, it is a good idea to take a test drive.  The best way to do that is to attend a college day or tour program at colleges you are considering.